Rant

I am positively intolerant of emo-victims.

You know those people who wine about “their lot” or sit on their hands and watch their life go down the pisser without trying to take control.

Those people who bleet on about their failed romances, the one who got away, but who either string several along at the same time or give everything up straight away because of course it’s love, he said so!

Seriously, friend or foe, you need a fucking slap! I read on a competition column for a website two friends of mine, had entered, some person bleating on about their negative past life (not in a “i used to be Mary Queen of Scots sense”. On a fashion website.

Seriously since when did your situation become note worthy? Do you think people going to a fashion website want to know about your lot?What exactly do you hope to achieve apart from a pity party. How about you focus on the positive and not the negative! Isn’t that a much nicer way to get peoples attention. To share love, optimisim and hope?

We all go through ups and downs, we get hurt, we repair ourselves, we are then meant to move on. If your life has gone to the shitter, perhaps you didn’t take care of yourself? Perhaps you let yourself down? If that’s the case, how is a one man pity-party going to help?

TAKE CONTROL. For the love of anything sacred, do something productive and don’t bleet about it to everyone like some visceral haemorrhage.

If your life doesn’t go the way you want it, like most, so what, your values, expectations and desires will have changed since your career session at high school.

Just stay away from social networking and forums and let us read in to our interests in peace. If we want to know about injustice, misfortune and despair, an employed woman, with 3 children in her 40’s, in a relationship, living in a rich country with state healthcare and who can afford a computer and Internet connection is not really symbolic of the horror that this world sees, is it?

Be quiet, be positive, conduct your personal life, personally, be a role model for your children, work hard and laugh harder.

Vanity is our greatest downfall, and those with the least in this world are normally the most content and the most beautiful for it.