Tuesday, 19 April 2011
Where to go
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Rant
I am positively intolerant of emo-victims.
You know those people who wine about “their lot” or sit on their hands and watch their life go down the pisser without trying to take control.
Those people who bleet on about their failed romances, the one who got away, but who either string several along at the same time or give everything up straight away because of course it’s love, he said so!
Seriously, friend or foe, you need a fucking slap! I read on a competition column for a website two friends of mine, had entered, some person bleating on about their negative past life (not in a “i used to be Mary Queen of Scots sense”. On a fashion website.
Seriously since when did your situation become note worthy? Do you think people going to a fashion website want to know about your lot?What exactly do you hope to achieve apart from a pity party. How about you focus on the positive and not the negative! Isn’t that a much nicer way to get peoples attention. To share love, optimisim and hope?
We all go through ups and downs, we get hurt, we repair ourselves, we are then meant to move on. If your life has gone to the shitter, perhaps you didn’t take care of yourself? Perhaps you let yourself down? If that’s the case, how is a one man pity-party going to help?
TAKE CONTROL. For the love of anything sacred, do something productive and don’t bleet about it to everyone like some visceral haemorrhage.
If your life doesn’t go the way you want it, like most, so what, your values, expectations and desires will have changed since your career session at high school.
Just stay away from social networking and forums and let us read in to our interests in peace. If we want to know about injustice, misfortune and despair, an employed woman, with 3 children in her 40’s, in a relationship, living in a rich country with state healthcare and who can afford a computer and Internet connection is not really symbolic of the horror that this world sees, is it?
Be quiet, be positive, conduct your personal life, personally, be a role model for your children, work hard and laugh harder.
Vanity is our greatest downfall, and those with the least in this world are normally the most content and the most beautiful for it.
You know those people who wine about “their lot” or sit on their hands and watch their life go down the pisser without trying to take control.
Those people who bleet on about their failed romances, the one who got away, but who either string several along at the same time or give everything up straight away because of course it’s love, he said so!
Seriously, friend or foe, you need a fucking slap! I read on a competition column for a website two friends of mine, had entered, some person bleating on about their negative past life (not in a “i used to be Mary Queen of Scots sense”. On a fashion website.
Seriously since when did your situation become note worthy? Do you think people going to a fashion website want to know about your lot?What exactly do you hope to achieve apart from a pity party. How about you focus on the positive and not the negative! Isn’t that a much nicer way to get peoples attention. To share love, optimisim and hope?
We all go through ups and downs, we get hurt, we repair ourselves, we are then meant to move on. If your life has gone to the shitter, perhaps you didn’t take care of yourself? Perhaps you let yourself down? If that’s the case, how is a one man pity-party going to help?
TAKE CONTROL. For the love of anything sacred, do something productive and don’t bleet about it to everyone like some visceral haemorrhage.
If your life doesn’t go the way you want it, like most, so what, your values, expectations and desires will have changed since your career session at high school.
Just stay away from social networking and forums and let us read in to our interests in peace. If we want to know about injustice, misfortune and despair, an employed woman, with 3 children in her 40’s, in a relationship, living in a rich country with state healthcare and who can afford a computer and Internet connection is not really symbolic of the horror that this world sees, is it?
Be quiet, be positive, conduct your personal life, personally, be a role model for your children, work hard and laugh harder.
Vanity is our greatest downfall, and those with the least in this world are normally the most content and the most beautiful for it.
Tastes like chicken...
Do you ever sit there and think about the things in your life that piss you off. That make you sad, or question the purpose of getting up in the morning?
Yes?
Well what are you going to do about it?
What will you change, or introduce to bring about a happier life for yourself?
Lets face it, if you won’t sort your life out, no one else will. Don’t see why you need to change anything? Well, stop complaining and get used to being unfulfilled.
You don’t have much to offer a partner if you can’t look after yourself, if you are one of those people that think all you need is romantic love.
Nah, sod this imaginary romance malarky, plenty of time for that, once you have got yourself doing what you want to do. Provided the things for yourself that you want. Experienced, travelled, consumed, worn…. achieved by your own standards..
Then in 5 years, where do you want to be? What do you want to be doing.
You can’t guarantee you’ll be with them but if you want it bad enough, you can at least be there to meet them.
We have a plan, we have our research to do. Whether together or apart, we can both achieve it. So lets do it!
I’ll see you there!
Yes?
Well what are you going to do about it?
What will you change, or introduce to bring about a happier life for yourself?
Lets face it, if you won’t sort your life out, no one else will. Don’t see why you need to change anything? Well, stop complaining and get used to being unfulfilled.
You don’t have much to offer a partner if you can’t look after yourself, if you are one of those people that think all you need is romantic love.
Nah, sod this imaginary romance malarky, plenty of time for that, once you have got yourself doing what you want to do. Provided the things for yourself that you want. Experienced, travelled, consumed, worn…. achieved by your own standards..
Then in 5 years, where do you want to be? What do you want to be doing.
You can’t guarantee you’ll be with them but if you want it bad enough, you can at least be there to meet them.
We have a plan, we have our research to do. Whether together or apart, we can both achieve it. So lets do it!
I’ll see you there!
Employ me, you know you want too!
5 job applications, 2 cv’s, one career change.
Why? The problem solving and rewards in the social support sector aren’t enough for me! I want to work to support those who want to help themselves and for a large majority of my clients over the last few years, it is often not this case.
So, knowing my strengths, weaknesses and skills, i’m taking my stride towards a vocation that most find boring, but I love!
It means a pay cut and more training/qualifications but as I’m the right side of 30, I don’t have a problem with that! Moving for me will literally be all change and I can’t wait!
Many people I know are at the stage of finding career work fe the first time outside of higher education and ate facing a whole heap of issues.
Too much competition, badly scripted application forms, boring CV’s, interview nerves or over confidence.
Do your best.. Not the sort of best your mum would except but is really a thinly veiled sludge of “I can’t be bothered”!
Sell yourself, your skills, attitude, enthusiasm and possibly body! If you don’t sizzle then a) it’s possibly not the right job for you and b) someone else will!
Be prepared, the boy scouts give sound advice, know your industry, learn about the company and keep to key information!
Lastly, know matter how many times u get passed over, man the **** up and keep trying!
Why? The problem solving and rewards in the social support sector aren’t enough for me! I want to work to support those who want to help themselves and for a large majority of my clients over the last few years, it is often not this case.
So, knowing my strengths, weaknesses and skills, i’m taking my stride towards a vocation that most find boring, but I love!
It means a pay cut and more training/qualifications but as I’m the right side of 30, I don’t have a problem with that! Moving for me will literally be all change and I can’t wait!
Many people I know are at the stage of finding career work fe the first time outside of higher education and ate facing a whole heap of issues.
Too much competition, badly scripted application forms, boring CV’s, interview nerves or over confidence.
Do your best.. Not the sort of best your mum would except but is really a thinly veiled sludge of “I can’t be bothered”!
Sell yourself, your skills, attitude, enthusiasm and possibly body! If you don’t sizzle then a) it’s possibly not the right job for you and b) someone else will!
Be prepared, the boy scouts give sound advice, know your industry, learn about the company and keep to key information!
Lastly, know matter how many times u get passed over, man the **** up and keep trying!
Where have you been all my life...
… winning lottery ticket?
Indeed… where have you been as we still have not met! No, it wasn’t fortune that has kept me away. It was just silly little thing life chucks our way.
I’ve caught up with family, had an amazing time in Warwickshire getting to meet Tom’s nearest and dearest. Decided not to proceed with the purchase of our flat in Kent as it is clear where we want to be is up north, so why fight it?
My job continues to pay but doesn’t do anything to feed my soul. So, ALL CHANGE PLEASE!
I’ve had sewage flood in my basement. Discovered the existence of 1.8kg jars of Jelly Belly beans. Spent way to much on shoes and clothes. Bought a new laptop. Loads of baking and consumption of said baking. Gained about 7lbs. (back off feeders).
Dressed up like a Zebra, in public and my plce of work. Raised funds, spent funds. Made curry. Became an aunt for the 5th time. Lost friends. Made friends. Annoyed others. Oh and completed all but 2 achievements on Dragon Age 22 (Xbox live).
Usual stuff.
I have a weekend in London seeing some genuinely decent bloody people who make me laugh if nowt else, i am sure i don’t return the favour, maybe i should try sexual suggestions? And have picked my outfit so i am sure i will be posting more fashion links for those interested.
In my recent shopping sessions i have noticed the distinct lack of decent fatty accessories, especially things like belts and decent wide shoes. If you have any great sites, please share! My vanity needs you!
Feed the love fattehs!
Indeed… where have you been as we still have not met! No, it wasn’t fortune that has kept me away. It was just silly little thing life chucks our way.
I’ve caught up with family, had an amazing time in Warwickshire getting to meet Tom’s nearest and dearest. Decided not to proceed with the purchase of our flat in Kent as it is clear where we want to be is up north, so why fight it?
My job continues to pay but doesn’t do anything to feed my soul. So, ALL CHANGE PLEASE!
I’ve had sewage flood in my basement. Discovered the existence of 1.8kg jars of Jelly Belly beans. Spent way to much on shoes and clothes. Bought a new laptop. Loads of baking and consumption of said baking. Gained about 7lbs. (back off feeders).
Dressed up like a Zebra, in public and my plce of work. Raised funds, spent funds. Made curry. Became an aunt for the 5th time. Lost friends. Made friends. Annoyed others. Oh and completed all but 2 achievements on Dragon Age 22 (Xbox live).
Usual stuff.
I have a weekend in London seeing some genuinely decent bloody people who make me laugh if nowt else, i am sure i don’t return the favour, maybe i should try sexual suggestions? And have picked my outfit so i am sure i will be posting more fashion links for those interested.
In my recent shopping sessions i have noticed the distinct lack of decent fatty accessories, especially things like belts and decent wide shoes. If you have any great sites, please share! My vanity needs you!
Feed the love fattehs!
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